overcoming relationship breakup first action
First Action to Stopping a Breakup
Don’t Freak Out. When you panic, you will do bad things that will further hurt your relationship.
If you freak out this just helps confirm their decision to breakup.
Your lover will get pushed farther away, (chances are your being demanding and clingy.)
Signs of Freaking Out
Text Bombing, or sending a barrage of text messages.
Emotional Calling, calling over and over again.
Fighting about the break up.
Not being able to accept the reason given for the breakup.
“Running into” them accidentally.
Here’s what should you do..
It’s opposite of your feelings and seems counterintuitive.
Be okay with the breakup
Don’t do any of the crazy stuff mentioned..
Be calm and cool about it and agree with it (for now).
Why this works?
“A hungry dog doesn’t get fed,” is what my old grandfather used to say.
You immediately want a hungry starved, shaggy dog to leave your house. Whereas a nicely groomed and well fed dog you take care of.
It works because of powerful psychological reasons.
People will always want what they can’t have. David Deangleo said it best by “How do you make someone want something? You give it value. You show others like it. You make it scarce. And then you make them work for it.” Your basically guaranteeing your ex won’t want you back by being pathetic about it.
This is true with..
Getting a job, hard when you need one
Credit or Money, people with money easily get loans
Love and Attention
If you’ve blown it is there still a chance?
Yes!
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